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But to each one of us grace has been given as Christ apportioned it. Ephesians 4:7

We went to a candy shop once to get salt-water taffy. There’s was the best! It was one of those old-time candy shops where the salt-water taffy was in baskets. You could take a small container and choose the kind and amount of each flavor.

I enjoyed watching the little children being given a container and permission to choose. Some were very meticulous, choosing each piece carefully. Some would plunge their hands deep into the basket and try to get as much as possible into their tiny hands so that they could fill their basket with their favorite flavor. Try as they might, they couldn’t get the whole basket in their hands at once, but that didn’t stop them from trying.

Grace is like that large container of our favorite taffy. Each individual piece of taffy represents the times we fail Jesus. It may be a word spoken that never should have been heard. It may be a decision which ended up hurting your stand for Christ and/or those around you. It could be the inability for you to forgive someone who has hurt you deeply.

Time after time we go to the basket of grace. Because of our sin we reach deeply into the basket and pull out as much as we can. But the supply never lessens and there is never a lack. God’s grace is given to us according to Christ’s desire to give. We can never use it up. We can never deplete the supply. He chooses to give us an unlimited supply of grace to get us through the tough times of life, to heal the wounds of our soul, to sweeten our lives with forgiveness.

What are you struggling with today? Is it fear of the future? Reach deep into the basket of grace. Pull out all the promises of God’s constant presence and protection. Do you struggle with an addiction or shameful habit? Plunge you hand deep into the basket of God’s grace and fill your fingers with God’s forgiveness and power to conquer the frustration of not being able to life in victory. Are you suffering the scars of a life battered by abuse and anger? Dig down deep into the promises that Jesus’ desire is to heal you of those bruises. Taste the sweetness of a life no longer affected by the past.

God doesn’t give us grace according to our need; He gives it according to His vast, endless supply through Jesus Christ.

Go ahead. Walk into the candy shop of God’s grace. Take your fill. Enjoy the sweetness of God’s provision for your soul. You’ll never find Him lacking. You’ll never be alone.

PRAYER: Father God, No one knows the pain I harbor deep in my soul except you. No one understands the pain I struggle with on a daily basis. Pain due to fear, anger, my past, shame and guilt haunts me daily. Forgive me for my failings. Help me to taste the sweetness of your Grace. Empower me through Your Spirit to conquer the things in my life that keep me from relationship with you. Thank you for Your unending supply of Grace through Jesus Christ. Amen.


Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you. Ephesians 4:32

“It’s not about you!” Is a phrase that pops up occasionally?  The intent of the phrase is to remind the listener that all of life doesn’t revolve around their feelings, their comfort or their life in general. Much as we’d like to think otherwise, life will go on without us. The flowers will still bloom, the rain will still fall and the seasons will still go through their cyclical changes.

When it comes to our spiritual/emotional lives the phrase takes on a somewhat different meaning. In God’s eyes everything is about us. We are his special creations, the apple of His eye, and the motivation for everything he does.

God created the world for our pleasure as much as His. He sent His only Son for our eternal forgiveness and blessing, not because He had to. Not because He felt obligated due to our frailty as human beings. God did what He did for our benefit.

In the Apostle Paul’s’ letter to the church in Ephesus he encourages them to live lives centered on the feelings and emotions of other people. The church in Ephesus was known for ‘getting it right.’ John writes to them in the Book of Revelation and commends them for taking a stand against those who were rebellious towards the things of God. They knew right from wrong and weren’t afraid to tell people who’d stepped outside the circle of God’s will.

Where the people of God in Ephesus fell short was in the area of love. John exhorts them to return to the basics. To love, accept and forgive those who had wronged them. Neither Paul nor John gives the church in Ephesus any room for arguing their case. How they treated people had nothing to do with how they were being treated. It wasn’t about them. It was about Jesus.

The message is true for us as well. As followers of Jesus we are commanded to be compassionate and forgiving because that is exactly how Jesus treats us. Other people who speak ill of us, attack us verbally or physically and hurt us (intentionally or otherwise) are in God’s eyes no better or worse than we area.

We are not forgiven because of anything we have done or because of our ability to live like Christ. We are forgiven because when we are at our worst God’s loves us at His best. Forgiving others doesn’t mean we allow them to continue to hurt and abuse us. It does mean we put ourselves in a safe place and don’t retaliate. Being compassionate doesn’t necessarily mean we allow ourselves to be used and taken advantage of. It does mean we do what we can, in a safe way, to bring those in need to a saving knowledge of Jesus Christ through prayer, refusal to speak ill of them and whatever other ways we can to remain safe and extend the hand of Christ’s love and forgiveness.

PRAYER: Dear Jesus, when I think of how I’ve been hurt and taken advantage of by others it’s really hard to treat my attackers with love, compassion and forgiveness. Yet in my heart I know you have forgiven me for much more. I confess to you the hatred I have for certain people, abusers, in my life. I ask that you would heal my wounds and empower me by your Spirit to forgive them. Help me to know that in your eyes it’s all about me and because of your love I can release my enemies into your hands. Amen.


For you were once darkness, but now you are light in the Lord. Live as children of light (for the fruit of the light consists in all goodness, righteousness and truth) Ephesians 5:8-9

No one would blame you for bumping into things in the dark. You can’t see where you are going. You don’t see obstacles in your path. You make choices and decisions based on what you know.

Sometimes, if you are in familiar surroundings, you can do pretty well walking in the dark. You remember where the obstacles were and can plan accordingly. But even then, your chances of miscalculating are great. We can end up in places we never thought we’d be if we rely on our instincts in the dark.

Perhaps the  Apostle Paul was thinking of the times he wandered in the dark when he wrote these words to the church in Ephesus. He may have been reminded of the times he’d escaped with his life, or the times sitting in the dark, wet, smelly prisons. Darkness was no stranger to Paul.

Paul also knew the warmth and safety of light. Light enables us to steer clear of obstacles. Light enables us to make clear, rational decisions. Light keeps us from being deceived by the shadows that lurk when darkness surrounds us.

Paul says, “Now we are children of light”. That means things are different now. We can’t be blamed for the actions we did in the dark. We didn’t know better. But now. Now we can see. The mistakes of our past, the poor decisions we made in the darkness are behind us. In another letter Paul says “I set aside those things in my past and press on.” What he is saying is that when he was in darkness he did things that now he regrets. But he’d been forgiven. He was free. He was in the light.

As a Christ-follower we no longer need to regret the things of our past. Because of Jesus love and forgiveness we can come to Him and ask forgiveness. Then, moving on in the light, we can trust Him to guide us into making decisions that are better for us and those around us.

Don’t let the shadows of your dark past continue to haunt you. Because of Jesus we can now walk in the light!

PRAYER: Dear Jesus, I thank you that because of you I can walk in the light. While I was in darkness there were so many people I hurt. So many things I regret. So many stupid decsions I made that I still have scars from. Forgive me for those choices. Enable me, through your Spirit, to walk boldly in the light. Remove the shadows of my past from me so I can live free in you. Amen.

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