Society puts a huge value on who you are in their view You are judged by your political party, your race, your gender, your sexual orientation, and a whole variety of other things. God judges you solely on how much you love him and love others. The more we love Jesus, the easier it becomes to love others. That is what Jesus prayed for in the garden before he was brutally murdered. He prayed that we would love one another as the father has loved us.